SENIORS LOSING INTEREST IN LIFE: 7 ways to help with Anhedonia

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Sometimes, older adults begin to withdraw from favorite activities and seem to lose interest in life. This could be Anhedonia, a common symptom of depression.

Symptoms of anhedonia include:

  • Withdrawing from social activities

  • A lack of relationships or withdrawal from previous relationships

  • Negative feelings toward themselves and others

  • Reduced emotional abilities

1. Empathize with how they’re feeling
An older adult may feel a loss of control and see themselves as a burden rather than a contributing family member. This can lead to emotional shutdown and isolation.

One way to help is to empathize with them.

Pay attention to their behavior. Do they look troubled? Is there something that’s holding them back? If yes, have an open conversation with them about it.

Empathizing with what they’re going through might help them feel comfortable enough to share their thoughts and feelings with you.

And talking about it with you can help them work through and reduce those feelings of isolation or depression.



2. Encourage healthy sleeping habits
Someone who is anxious often finds it tough to fall asleep or stay asleep. That’s typically because their mind isn’t at ease or is full of worrying thoughts.

Unfortunately, this sleep deprivation leads to fatigue and loss of motivation, which can make anhedonia worse.

Getting a good night’s sleep helps reduce the damaging effects of anhedonia. Plus, healthy sleeping habits help improve cognitive function and boost energy levels.

Improve your older adult’s sleep by:

Working with them to create a regular sleep schedule and encouraging them to stick to it.
Reducing exposure to screens in the evening, especially two hours before bedtime. To keep them entertained and relaxed, try replacing screen time with board games, puzzles, reading or audiobooks, or listening to their favorite music.

Preparing a lighter meal for dinner. And for some, having some warm milk before bed can be relaxing and sleep-inducing. Avoiding strenuous activities like exercising in the evening.



3. Encourage regular exercise
Everyone benefits from regular exercise, especially someone who’s showing signs of anhedonia.

Exercise can help combat stress, improve mood and sleep quality, and reduce joint pain or mobility issues.

Exercises and physical activity are known to release ‘feel-good’ hormones that improve overall mood and improve symptoms of depression. They also improve appetite and digestion.

Encourage your older adult to participate in pleasant physical activities like going for short morning walks or doing a simple daily exercise routine.

Regular chores that suit their ability level and spending time with any children in the household can also help keep them active and add purpose or meaning to their days.



4. Add serotonin-rich foods to their regular diet
Anhedonia is considered a sign of depression, which is associated with low levels of serotonin, a neurotransmitter that’s linked to mood.

Food plays a significant role in health — physical as well as mental and emotional.

Making small changes like eating a serotonin-rich diet can help improve mood and fight depression, helping to decrease anhedonia.

Add foods like fresh fruits, yogurt, fish, whole-grain bread, spinach, and dark chocolate to boost your older adult’s mood.

You may also want to talk with their doctor or nutritionist to plan a diet that improves their overall health and mood.



5. Encourage them to socialize
Seniors with anhedonia may find it difficult to socialize with friends and strangers alike. This can make them feel lonely, worsening their condition and triggering negative thoughts.

Encourage your older adult to socialize and help them find something to look forward to each day.

Depending on their interests and abilities, that might mean joining a club focused on a hobby, participating in an exercise class, taking a class with group discussion. Or, set up a regular exchange of calls, emails, or letters with friends and family.

Even if these activities are happening online due to the pandemic, they’re still great ways to socialize and do something fun.

Some older adults might benefit from considering a move to a senior housing community that would provide a community and organized activities.

In addition, senior centers also offer group activities that encourage everyone to come together and make meaningful connections.

If your older adult is reluctant to participate in group activities or be a part of a community, try accompanying them for a few events. Your support can help them feel more comfortable in a new situation and rediscover the joy of socializing and making new friends.

Note: Being in in-person and community settings may not be safe during the pandemic, but research and planning is something that can be done now.



6. Focus on life’s positives
Life is filled with both happy and sad moments.

With anhedonia, it may be challenging for your older adult to focus on the good times. But noticing or recalling positive events is a way to bring a smile to your adult’s face.

Help your older adult reminisce about happy memories by looking at videos and photographs together. Ask them to share funny stories related to their life experiences.

Create an album or time capsule, something that encourages them to relive happy moments and find ways to stay positive through tough times.



7. Consider therapy or counseling
Seniors with anhedonia may find it difficult to recognize and work through their emotions. This might make them frustrated, irritated, and angry with themselves.

Offering to lend a listening ear is a great way to help, but sometimes, getting help from an expert like a therapist or trained counselor can make an even bigger difference.

Advice and guidance from an expert can help them understand and process their emotions.



This article was featured at DailyCaring.com

https://dailycaring.com/elderly-losing-interest-in-life-ways-to-help-with-anhedonia/


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What we love about our Consulting Program is that is designed to serve clients wherever they are.

Social distancing requirements as well the fact that families are often located all over the U.S. can feel like major barriers when trying to access care for the older adult in your life.  

Using Zoom or even a simple phone call is all you need if you are looking to get help assessing next steps or best steps to keep your senior loved one safe.

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Don't forget! Colorado Gives Day is tomorrow

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Colorado Gives Day is an annual statewide movement to celebrate and increase philanthropy in Colorado through online giving. Donations are accepted through ColoradoGives.org.

This year we chose Project Angel Heart for our donation. Project Angel Heart was founded in 1991 to address a major challenge for Coloradans who are ill: getting the nutrition they need to get stronger, heal, and remain at home. Many are too sick to get to the grocery store or unable to cook for themselves. Others find they have to choose whether to buy food or medication to make ends meet.

That’s why Project Angel Heart prepares and delivers medically tailored meals to people living with life-threatening illnesses. Each week, our professional chefs and registered dietitian prepare thousands of delicious meals, from scratch, and tailor them to meet the medical and dietary needs of those who are ill.

Volunteers package and deliver each meal, free of charge, to neighbors living with cancer, HIV/AIDS, kidney/heart/lung disease, and other illnesses. In 2019, we will prepare and deliver nearly 500,000 nutritious meals to 3,000 critically ill neighbors in Denver and Colorado Springs.

The results? Improved health and well-being for those in need. Project Angel Heart’s meal recipients report better health, less stress, and more energy. They’re better able to afford their health care and adhere to their prescribed health care regimen. And it’s easier for them to live independently in their homes. Groundbreaking research also shows that many Project Angel Heart meal recipients have lower health care costs and hospital readmission rates.

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Thank You for the Homemade Pie!!!

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A big thank you to Kenny, Marie and all other staff from Atria Westminster for the HOMEMADE PIE.

Assisted livings are going above and beyond to stay connected to the community and sharing the love around the holidays! 

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Learn more about our Assurance Package

We would like to close out the month with our final Consulting option.

The ASSURANCE Package!

  • Have you reached the point where you know you need a professional to help you manage your current situation? (Emergency or crisis situations)

  • You need a professional to lift the burden on your complex situation?

  • You are a caregiver in need of a professional to answer questions and step in so you can focus on quality time with your loved one and self care?

If you answered YES to any of these questions then our Assurance Package may be right for you!

The Assurance is our most robust package and includes:

  • Basic needs assessment

  • Personalized care strategy

  • Help with interviewing options

  • Nursing home location services

  • Education on care continuum

  • Navigating complex situations

  • Family dynamic support

  • Home safety evaluation and resources

  • Follow-up communication of choice

  • Personalized handouts


Remember our Consulting Program is for aging adults who would like to remain independent at home and need help identifying the resources around doing this successfully. Maintain Me would provide a medical, financial and social assessment.

We are so excited to launch this new program. It allows us to offer a wide range of services and meet our clients where they are.

If you would like more information on our three different Consulting packages and to find out which one might best fit your needs.
Please contact us today!

Virtual Thanksgiving Ideas

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That's right! Turkey Day, like many other holidays this year, has gone virtual.

Unless you're having a tiny, socially distanced, outdoor get together - you probably shouldn't gather to feast with your entire family this year. The good news? You can host a virtual Thanksgiving celebration. Between birthday Zoom parties and virtual weddings, we're getting used to celebrating special events and holidays online.

So don't you dare skip the turkey and enter your collective food comas via Zoom (or whatever video calling platform you prefer) on Thanksgiving day!

Play a Game
An easy way to find amusement during a virtual celebration is with a game. We're talking Jackbox, Monopoly, or even a unique virtual interactive game show you can organize through The Bash!

Talent Show
This one's pretty self-explanatory. Get each of your family members to prepare a short showcase of one of their talents! Calling all jugglers, pianists, and moonwalkers. And don't forget to include your pets! Show off the tricks your dogs, cats, lizards, and hedgehogs can do so they can be a part of the celebration too.

Trivia Night
Here's an amusing way to show your family how many random and hilarious facts you know. Whether you choose a trivia theme like geography, Harry Potter, local history, or a homemade family-themed trivia game - it's sure to be a hit. If nothing else, y'all will likely learn a thing or two you didn't know before!

Family History
What better time than Thanksgiving to look into your family's roots? As a way of giving gratitude to your ancestors, learn more about them. Surprise your virtual Thanksgiving guests with insight from Ancestry.com, or ask your eldest relatives to share memories and stories of their eldest family members.

Thanksgiving Zoom Scavenger Hunt
As far as Zoom Thanksgiving ideas go, a virtual scavenger hunt is a personal fave. It’s simple, really. First, decide on a leader. The leader will create a list of household items the other players have to find. Give the players 60 seconds to find each item. The first to bring their item to the screen wins 3 points. Anyone else who brings the item within 60 seconds gets 1 point. Create a scorecard to keep track of points, and play until you’ve exhausted your list!
Pro Tip: Choose a mix of easy and obscure items — this will help bump up the competition and keep players interested. Make sure to throw in a few Thanksgiving-themed items too! (Like a turkey baster, a can of pumpkin puree, a family photo, or a whisk.)

Virtual Thanksgiving Craftmaking
This Zoom Thanksgiving idea is especially fun if any kids will be joining the virtual festivities. Choose a Thanksgiving craft ahead of time and mention it in your virtual Thanksgiving invitations. This way, everyone is prepared with paper, scissors, and markers by the time the call begins. A family tree or handprint turkeys are great options to start with!

Zoom Storytelling Game
Make a game out of storytelling with this creative Zoom Thanksgiving idea. Going around in a (virtual) circle, each player says one sentence to create a collaborated story. Depending on the size of your Thanksgiving Zoom party, decide on how many rounds to play so the players know when to start thinking of an ending. Be sure to record the story, or designate someone to write down each sentence so it can be read out at the end!

Make a Family Slideshow
View a slideshow of family photos to feel closer to your loved ones while celebrating virtually. Ask each household to provide a handful of favorite photos to include that way everyone is sure to be included.

Feed the nostalgia and pair your slideshow with a few home videos too! It's nice to reminisce together, especially during a time when we can't all be together. Be sure to take a few screenshots of the virtual celebration, to add fond memories of this whacky time to future slideshows.

Host a Virtual Thanksgiving Field Trip
Scholastic's First Thanksgiving Virtual Tour is an educational, virtual Thanksgiving idea that could be interesting for the whole family to check out. If your kids haven't already experienced it with school, why not host the virtual field trip during your Thanksgiving celebration? Take a peek into what life was like for colonists and First Nations in the 1600s, and learn a little about the history of Thanksgiving. https://www.scholastic.com/scholastic_thanksgiving/voyage/index.html

Make an Autumnal Beverage
Whether you decide on a hot toddy, a pumpkin brew, a spiced latte, or simply some apple cider - let your family know what's in your cup! You could even make a contest out of who can make the most extravagant looking autumnal drink. Think fall colors, whipped cream, cloves, and cinnamon!

Watch Macy's Thanksgiving Parade Virtually
New York's iconic Thanksgiving Parade is going virtual this year, and I think it's going to be a blast none-the-less. What better way to enjoy a parade than from the comfort of your own home? Cozy up with your family and friends virtually to watch Macy's Thanksgiving Parade from home this year.

Say Thanks
What is Thanksgiving without going around the virtual table to say one thing you're thankful for? Cringey as it is, it's one part of the modern Thanksgiving tradition that ought to continue. Because we have a lot to be thankful for - especially when it comes to family and friends.


Happy Thanksgiving everyone! You can find even more Thanksgiving celebration ideas on The Bash.
https://www.thebash.com/articles/virtual-thanksgiving-celebration-ideas

Learn more about our Advocacy Package

This week we would like to introduce our ADVOCACY Package!

• Are you finding that organizing all your support options is overwhelming?

Is it overwhelming to explore and arrange service options?

• Are you concerned your current care situation is unsustainable?

• Are you finding it hard to execute your personalized care strategy on your own?

• Are you not sure what your current home options are based on your budget?

• Are you finding that what you’re doing now is not enough?

If you answered YES to any of these questions then our Advocacy Package may be right for you!

Assistance from this package includes:

  • Basic needs assessment

  • Personalized care strategy

  • Education on Insurance

  • Establishing budget priorities

  • Resources with handoff

  • Follow-up communication of choice

  • Personalized handouts


Remember our Consulting Program is for aging adults who would like to remain independent at home and need help identifying the resources around doing this successfully. Maintain Me would provide a medical, financial and social assessment.

We love a great Review!

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We always appreciate when our clients take time to provide feedback. 

Thank you for the wonderful review Rick! Morgan said you were both a pleasure to work with and she was happy to be able to assist you and your Dad. 

As we are all trying to navigate during difficult times. It gives us so much satisfaction to provide our clients with guidance and understanding.

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Learn more about our Discovery Package

This week we would like to introduce our

DISCOVERY Package!

  • Is your goal to continue to manage your life and care needs on your own?

  • Would you consider help from your loved ones or a professional?

  • Do you need a professional to work with you to identify what you need?

  • Has someone in your life said you need more help and you want to explore this on your own?

If you answered YES to any of these questions then our Discovery Package may be right for you! Assistance from this package includes:

  • Basic needs assessment

  • Personalized care strategy

  • Follow-up communication of choice

  • Personalized handouts


Remember our Consulting Program is for aging adults who would like to remain independent at home and need help identifying the resources around doing this successfully. Maintain Me would provide a medical, financial and social assessment.

A Little Kindness Days

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We had a great time last weekend volunteering for
A Little Kindness Days!

Aside from a few wind gusts the weather was perfect and it was great to spend the afternoon together as a team. 

Many thanks to A Little Help for orchestrating this volunteer project to benefit the older adults in our community!

Veteran's Day Deals & Discounts!

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We want to take the time to say thank you to our members and all veterans who have served in the United States Military. Your sacrifice and courage are commendable.

Veterans Day is an opportune time to feel grateful for the many liberties in our nation and thank those who have fought to protect it. Take the time to celebrate and thank the veterans in your life!

For many, this day serves as a reason to enjoy a meal and celebrate the veteran in their family. We've included a list of all of the amazing businesses in our community that have discounts for veteran's today. Be sure to contact your favorite local establishments too.

7-ElevenVeterans with a Veterans Advantage account can link their account to the convenience store chain's 7Rewards loyalty program to get special offers including a free cup of coffee for Veterans Day. 

Applebee'sFree meal from a special menu but offers can vary.

Bar Louie: Free burger or flatbread.

Beef 'O' Brady's: Free meal up to $10. No purchase required.

Ben's Soft Pretzels: Free jumbo soft pretzel.

Biggby CoffeeFree hot brewed coffee up to 24 ounces.

BJ’s Restaurant & BrewhouseFree meal up to $14.95 and free Dr Pepper beverage.

Bob EvansFree meal from a special menu.

Bonefish Grill: Ongoing 10% discount daily.

Buffalo Wild WingsFree order of 10 boneless wings and fries.

California Pizza KitchenFree meal from a special menu.

Carrabba’s Italian Grill: 10% discount for active and retired service members.

Casey's General Store: Free coffee.

Chicken Salad Chick: Free Chick Special and regular drink.

Chili's Grill & BarFree meal from a special menu.

Chopt Creative Salad Co.: 30% off military discount.

Cicis PizzaFree adult buffet for veterans with military ID and a coupon posted at www.cicis.com/veteransday.

Country Pride: Free meal for veterans Wednesday.

Cracker BarrelFree slice of Double Chocolate Fudge Coca-Cola Cake.

D'Angelo Grilled Sandwiches: 50% off entire order Wednesday for walk-in and carry-out orders. Not valid online, on lobster or gift cards.

Denny's: Free "Build Your Own Grand Slam" from 5 a.m. to noon Wednesday.

Dickey's Barbecue Pit: Free Pulled Pork Classic Sandwich.

Dunkin': Free doughnut of your choice.

Einstein Bros. Bagels: Free hot or iced medium coffee when veterans state that they are a veteran.

Famous Dave'sFree Lunch Georgia Chopped Pork Sandwich with side.

Farmer BoysFree Big Cheese for veterans.

Friendly's: Free All-American meal for lunch or dinner.

Freddy's Frozen Custard & SteakburgersFree combo meal cards for veterans and active-duty military who visit a Freddy's location Wednesday. The cards are good through Nov. 30.

Golden Corral: Through Nov. 30, Golden Corral is handing out free meal and beverage cards to all active-duty military and veterans. The cards can be used once through May 31 for lunch or dinner Monday through Thursday.

Huddle HouseFree MVP Breakfast Platter.

Iron SkilletFree meal for veterans Wednesday.

Kolache FactoryFree breakfast for veterans, which includes one free kolache of any kind and one cup of any size brewed coffee.

Krispy KremeFree doughnut of choice and small hot or iced coffee.

Landry’s Inc.The company with more than 60 brands – including Morton’s The Steakhouse, Del Frisco’s Double Eagle Steakhouses, Bubba Gump Shrimp Co. and Rainforest Cafe – is offering military veterans and active members 20% off Wednesday for up to four people. Excludes Golden Nugget restaurants and McCormick & Schmick’s locations.

Little Caesars: Free lunch combo between 11 a.m. and 2 p.m. Wednesday.

Logan’s RoadhouseFree meal between 3 to 6 p.m. Wednesday from the American Roadhouse menu.

Love's Travel Stops and Country Stores: Purchase one roller grill item and get a second free and a fountain drink or coffee of any size for free.

Menchie's Frozen YogurtFirst six ounces of frozen yogurt are free for veterans.

Metro Diner: 50% off breakfast, lunch or dinner.

Nekter Juice Bar: Free 16-ounce Fresh Juice or Superfood Smoothie.

Ninety Nine Restaurant & Pub: Free meal from a special Veterans Day menu with the purchase of another meal and proof of service from 11 a.m. to 5 p.m. Wednesday.

O'Charley's: Free meal from special menu Wednesday. Plus, the chain has a 10% military discount daily.

Outback SteakhouseFree Bloomin’ Onion and Coke product Wednesday. Also, the chain has a daily heroes discount offering 10% off entire checks to all servicemen and -women, police officers, firefighters and first responders with a valid state or federal service ID.

Papa Gino's50% off whole pizzas for walk-in and carry out orders.

Pilot Flying J: Free breakfast combo, which includes coffee, for veterans and military on the Pilot Flying J app through Nov. 15.

Qdoba: 50% off any entree Wednesday.

Red LobsterFree appetizer or dessert.

Red RobinThis deal starts the day after Veterans Day. From Thursday through Nov. 30, veterans and active military who are current Red Robin Royalty members can get a free tavern burger served with bottomless fries.

Scooter's CoffeeFree drink in any size.

Smashburger: Free Double Burger with any purchase.

Smokey BonesFree meal from a special menu. Plus, the chain has a 10% military discount daily.

Smoothie KingFree 20-ounce smoothie of choice.

Sonny’s BBQFree pork sandwich Wednesday, plus service people that stop by on Veterans Day will also receive a voucher for a free BBQ Egg Roll appetizer, redeemable with a valid military ID from Dec. 1-15.

StarbucksFree tall hot brewed coffee for veterans, active service members and their spouses Wednesday.

Travelcenters of America: Free meals for veterans at participating Country Pride, Iron Skillet or a TA Petro quick service restaurants.

Taco John's: Free small beef #1 Combo Meal. Military personnel can redeem the offer in the Taco John’s app by entering the promo code VETERAN under the “More” tab.

TacoTimeFree meal up to $10.

Torchy's TacosFree taco and non-alcoholic beverage from a special Veterans Day menu.

Twin PeaksFree meal from a special menu at corporate locations Wednesday.

Wendy's: Free small breakfast combo with valid military ID from 6:30 to 10:30 a.m. Hours can vary by location. Service members enrolled in VetRewards through the Veterans Advantage program can get a free breakfast sandwich with any breakfast purchase from Wednesday through Dec. 31.

White Castle: Free combo meal or breakfast combo.

Yard HouseFree appetizer Wednesday.

Zaxby'sFree Boneless Wings Meal with proof of military service Wednesday.

 

This article originally appeared on USA TODAY: Veterans Day 2020 free meals, deals: Dunkin', Starbucks, Denny's, more

We have a NEW Consulting Program. Check it out!

Maintain Me has proudly offered Transition Services as well as Case Management. We found there was still a void in what we could do to assist older adults and their families.

We have been busy during quarantine and are so excited to roll out our NEW Consulting Program. Another great way we can meet you where you are in the aging process!

Our services in Review!

TRANSITION

Transition services are for aging adults 55+ looking to transition to independent living, assisted living or memory care. Maintain Me assists with identifying and narrowing down communities based on a medical, financial and social assessment. We arrange personalized tours accompanied by a Maintain Me specialist.
Our role is to ensure a smooth transition with all aspects of the process.


Examples of when Transition may be appropriate:
• Client is no longer able to stay at home and is needing to move

• Client is socially isolated and wants a community style living

• Client is not able to take care of spouse and needs help but wants to stay together with more amenities and caregiver relief


CASE MANAGEMENT

Case Management includes coordinating initial care and 4-12 weeks of oversight from a Case Manager (RN, MSW) after a change in condition. This program is designed for our aging population to return home with extra support for a short period of time as they recover.
The goal is to ensure a successful return to home and prevent re-hospitalization.


Example of when Case Management may be appropriate:
• Client is hospitalized after a fall, has been informed of a new diagnosis, or discharging from rehab/therapy after a change of condition, and would like to return home. Family is not able to provide the oversight needed as the client recovers and is seeking resources. Oversight may include home modifications, medication management, and coordination of home care services, etc.


And NOW we are excited to offer...

CONSULTING

Consulting is for aging adults who would like to remain independent at home and need help identifying the resources around doing this successfully. Maintain Me would provide a medical, financial and social assessment. We offer a wide range of services, starting at a minimum of a personalized care plan through hands on assistance with any support setup and follow through.


Examples of when Consulting may be appropriate:
• Client has been living at home and does not want to move. Things at home are starting to get harder, but not quite problematic. Client is considering getting help and needs assistance navigating all the resources that exist and may even need help setting them up.

• Client has had a change of condition and now needs assistance finding a nursing home or resources quickly and doesn’t have the time for the extensive research to make a confident decision.

• Client needs a specialist in this area who knows the resources in and out and can help narrow down options.

• A caregiver who would like assistance, either because they are new to this role or are experiencing burnout and may be overwhelmed.

Women Voters 50 and Older Could Decide 2020 Election

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COVID-19, retirement security are among the top concerns

As women celebrate the 100th anniversary of securing the constitutional right to vote, their concerns over some of today's most-pressing issues, from COVID-19 to retirement security, are expected to bring them out in record numbers to exercise that right in the 2020 elections.

According to the Pew Research Center, voter turnout has been higher among women than men dating back to at least 1984. In the 2016 presidential election, 63 percent of women turned out, compared with 59 percent of men.

"I call it the ‘worried woman’ constituency,” says Nancy LeaMond, AARP executive vice president and chief advocacy and engagement officer. AARP did a series of polls in September in 11 battleground states. Each survey found that women are more concerned than men about getting the coronavirus. Plus, they are more worried about paying for health care and being able to afford to retire.

For example, AARP's September polls showed that in Pennsylvania, nearly a quarter of women ages 50 to 64 said they couldn't afford to pay a medical bill or they had rationed the medication they take because of cost. Only 10 percent of men said the same. In Michigan, 55 percent of female respondents in that age group worried about being able to afford health care, compared with 41 percent of men.

"We are the caretakers,” says Beverly Cotton, a 67-year-old retired accountant from New Hampshire. “We're the ones who are more involved in managing the health care for our families. We're more aware of what it means to have good coverage, bad coverage and no coverage and what that means to our families.”

Women in all 11 states polled reported being more worried about getting COVID-19 than men. In Wisconsin, 60 percent of women over age 50 were fearful of becoming infected, compared with 48 percent of men. And in Arizona, 78 percent of women worried about getting the virus; that was true of 64 percent of men.


Economic concerns also dominate

"Women have, for a long time, been more worried about retirement security, in part because they're more worried about being on their own,” says Celinda Lake, a veteran Democratic pollster. In the U.S., on average, women live five years longer than men, according to life expectancy data compiled by the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC).

Social Security is “of exceptional importance,” says Jean Nofles, 78, of Denver. “It's a right. It's something that we have earned, and I hate to see it being played with. Too many older people have that as their sole source of income."

According to an October report by the New School's Retirement Equity Lab, older women have faced higher rates of job loss than older men since the beginning of the pandemic. During each month between April and September, the report states, women were 38 percent more likely than men to become unemployed.

The coronavirus has added an extra layer of concern for older women already worried about being able to afford to retire, LeaMond said at a forum on older voters that AARP sponsored this week with The Hill newspaper. Women, she said, are not only “being paid less in jobs than their male counterparts” but also are often the ones in the family who take more time out of the workforce to care for children or parents.

AARP's polls reflect women's economic concerns. When it comes to fears about Social Security, women are more worried than men about benefits being cut: 78 percent versus 64 percent in Arizona; 80 percent versus 61 percent in Wisconsin. Women are also more anxious about being able to afford to retire. In Michigan, 84 percent of women reported being worried, compared with 60 percent of men; in Wisconsin, it's 63 percent of women versus 50 percent of men.



This article was featured at AARP.org
https://www.aarp.org/politics-society/government-elections/info-2020/women-voters.html?intcmp=AE-HP-BB-LL3

Happy Halloween

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Maintain Me would like to wish you a
Happy & Healthy Halloween!

26 Fun and Scary Halloween Facts to Trick (or Treat) Your Friends

1. The holiday goes back more than 2,000 years.

Halloween all started as a pre-Christian Celtic festival called Samhain (which means "summer's end") held around the first of November. It celebrated the final day of the harvest and the crossing of spirits over into the other world. People in Ireland, the United Kingdom, and Northern France would ward off ghosts by lighting sacrificial bonfires, and, you guessed it, wearing costumes, according to History.com.

2. Trick-or-treating has existed since medieval times.

Back then, it was known as "guising" in Scotland and Ireland. Young people dressed up in costumes and asked for food or money in exchange for songs, poems, or other "tricks." Today, the tradition has morphed into children to getting dressed up and asking for candy.

3. Some Halloween rituals used to involve finding a husband.

During the 18th century, ladies would follow Halloween traditions that would "help" them find a romantic match. According to History.com, women would: Throw apple peels over their shoulder hoping to see their future husband’s initials, competitively bob for apples at parties because the winner would be the first to get married, and stand in a dark room with a candle in front of a mirror to look for their future husband’s face. Thankfully, those traditions have died out.

4. Immigrants helped popularize the holiday in the U.S.

When the Irish fled their country in the 1840s due to the potato famine, they brought their Halloween traditions with them. By the 1920s, the holiday the mischief reached an all-time high. Some believe community-based trick-or-treating became popular in the 1930s as a way to control the excessive pranksters.

5. Sugar rationing during World War II halted trick-or-treating. After the rationing ended, the tradition grew into what we're familiar with today. Candy companies started launching advertising campaigns to capitalize on the ritual.

6. Now Halloween is the second largest commercial holiday in the country.

It comes after only Christmas. Consumers spent approximately $9 billion (!) on Halloween last year, according to the National Retail Federation (NRF). That's A LOT of candy and costumes.

7. Americans spend about $86.27 on Halloween every year.

That includes Halloween decorations, candy, costumes, and cards by the NRF definition. (If you're curious how that compares to Christmas, Americans spent an average of $1,048 on winter holidays in 2019.)

8. This year will be the first Halloween in 19 years to have a full moon.

Full moons on Halloween are pretty rare. The last time there was a full moon on October 31, it was 2001 — and before that it was 1955. The next one won't occur until 2039. In fact, the 21st century will only see six full moons on October 31: 2001, 2020, 2039, 2058, 2077 and 2096.

9. The Irish also brought us jack-o'-lanterns.

As the story goes, an Irish man named Stingy Jack tricked the devil and therefore was not allowed into heaven or hell — so he spent his days roaming the Earth, carrying a lantern, and went by "Jack of the Lantern."

10. They used to be carved out of turnips, potatoes, and beets.

Jack-'o-lanterns originated in Ireland, after all. Once Halloween became popular in America, people used pumpkins instead.

11. There's also traditional Halloween bread in Ireland.

It's called barmbrack or just "brack." The sweet loaf typically contains dark and golden raisins plus a small toy or ring. Similar to king cake at Mardi Gras, tradition dictates the person who finds the item will receive good fortune.

12. Disney almost made 'Hocus Pocus' a completely different movie.

The original title Disney's Halloween House also went along with a much darker and scarier script, according to IMDB. Another fun piece of Halloween movie trivia: Leonardo DiCaprio nearly played Max Dennison, but he turned it down to appear in What's Eating Gilbert Grape instead.

13. Illinois produces up to five times more pumpkins than any other state.

The Land of Lincoln has more than 15,000 acres devoted to gourd growing, according to the United States Department of Agriculture. Those Illinois farms typically grow more than 500 million pounds of pumpkins annually.

14. Candy corn was originally called "chicken feed."

The Goelitz Confectionery Company sold boxes with a rooster on the front in order to appeal to America's agricultural roots, according to National Geographic. The sugary recipe has gone largely unchanged since the 1880s.

15. "Monster Mash" once reigned supreme on the Billboard charts.

Bobby "Boris" Pickett reached #1 on the Hot 100 in 1962 just before Halloween and later recharted in 1973 — but this time in August.

16. You can actually visit a pumpkin patch in Hawaii.

Head to Waimanalo Country Farms in Oahu to pick pumpkins while you're on the islands. Looking for squash in Florida? Try the Pickin’ Patch in Dunnellon. (It's a watermelon farm the rest of the year!)

17. The Michael Myers mask in Halloween has a fascinating backstory.

The famous horror movie villain has surprisingly innocent roots. When shooting the original 1978 film, production designer Tommy Lee Wallace picked up two masks from a Hollywood Boulevard magic shop: a clown and William Shatner as Captain Kirk in Star Trek.

"Tommy came in with the clown mask on, and we went, 'Ooh, that’s kind of scary.' Then he put on the Shatner mask, and we stopped dead and said, 'It’s perfect,'" actor Nick Castle told the New York Times. They spray-painted it white, cut the eye holes bigger, and the rest is history.

18. The fastest pumpkin carving lasted 16.47 seconds.

Stephen Clarke holds the honor. The jack-o'-lantern had to contain a complete face, including eyes, nose, mouth, and ears.

19. New York City throws the biggest Halloween parade in the U.S.

It draws more than 2 million spectators and includes thousands participants, but it started out as a simple idea from Greenwich Village resident (and puppeteer!) Ralph Lee — a walk from house to house for his children and their friends. When the local theatre got wind of it, they turned it into a bigger event — and it's gotten bigger (and more theatrical) every year since.

20. The most popular children's costumes are princesses and superheroes.

Adults are most likely to dress as witches, according to the National Retail Federation. As for our pets? The most popular costume for dogs in 2019 was a pumpkin. And the most Googled costume of 2019? That would be It, the creepy clown created by Stephen King.

21. Skittles are the top Halloween candy.

The bite-sized candies outranked M&M's, Snickers, and Reese's Cups, according to 11 years of sales data from CandyStore.com. And even though candy corn also made the top 10, the tricolored treats also ranked among the worst Halloween candies, according to a CandyStore.com survey.

22. A city in Canada banned teens over 16 from trick-or-treating.

According to CBC, anyone over the age of 16 caught trick-or-treating — or even just wearing masks — in Bathurst, Canada, faces up to a $200 fine. The city also has a curfew for everyone else, so even those under 16 aren't allowed out after 8 p.m. on Halloween.

23. Harry Houdini died on Halloween in 1926.

The famous magician, illusionist, and entertainer died from peritonitis caused by a ruptured appendix, but multiple contradicting reports caused quite the mystery around his death.

24. Some shelters used to suspend black cat adoptions for Halloween.

They feared that the animals were in danger of satanic cults in the days leading up to Halloween. Nowadays, some shelters promote black cat adoptions in October and use interviews to weed out anyone with the wrong intentions.

25. Keene, New Hampshire, holds the record for the most jack-o’-lanterns on display.

In October 2013, the city broke the record with 30,581 lit pumpkins around town. Pretty impressive, right?

26. The night before Halloween is called Mischief Night or Goosey Night in some places.

October 30 is a night popular for pulling pranks — some harmless like throwing toilet paper in trees, but others much more dangerous. It really only happens places on East Coast and in the Midwest, as the traditions never really made their way to the West Coast.

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The MoCA Test for Dementia

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Testing for Dementia: The Montreal Cognitive Assessment (MoCA)

If you suspect that your older adult could be showing signs of cognitive impairment and not just having moments of normal forgetfulness, the first step is to visit their primary doctor for a full check-up.

If there aren’t any obvious causes of dementia-like symptoms, the doctor might use a test called the Mini Mental Status Exam (MMSE) to screen for possible cognitive issues.

However, there’s a more sensitive, but less common, screening test called the Montreal Cognitive Assessment (MoCA).


How the Montreal Cognitive Assessment (MoCA) works

The Montreal Cognitive Assessment (MoCA) is a one page, 30 point test that takes about 10 minutes and doesn’t require the doctor to have any special training.

The MoCA usually tests these cognitive areas:

  • Ability to process and understand visual information about where objects are

  • Executive functions – ability to manage cognitive processes

  • Language

  • Short-term memory recall

  • Attention

  • Concentration

  • Working memory

  • Awareness of time and place


How are the MoCA and MMSE different?

The MoCA looks similar to the MMSE, but the MoCA tests a variety of different cognitive functions and the MMSE focuses mostly on memory and recall.

The MoCA is generally better at detecting mild impairment and early Alzheimer’s disease because it’s a more sensitive test and is more challenging.

So, if a doctor sees a patient who is questioning their mental functioning, they might give the MoCA.

But if a patient comes in and is clearly cognitively impaired, a very sensitive test wouldn’t be as necessary since the issues are more obvious.


The MoCA has also been shown to be a better screening tool for conditions like:

  • Parkinson’s disease

  • Vascular dementia

  • Traumatic brain injury (often from falls)

  • Huntington’s disease

  • Brain tumors

  • Multiple sclerosis


How are the MoCA and MMSE similar?

Even though these are good screening tools for cognitive impairments, neither test was designed to diagnose cognitive conditions.

They’re both initial screening tests that are used to determine whether further cognitive testing is needed.

They also can’t be used to distinguish between conditions.

For example, you couldn’t use either test to diagnose someone with Alzheimer’s disease versus frontotemporal dementia. After the initial screening, more testing would be needed.


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Julie's Success Story

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Martha’s Move

I met Martha 13 months ago, after she had fallen and spent time in the hospital and rehab.  She shared with me her interesting background.  She was from NYC, had been an editor, and was also an artist who had loved to paint.  Martha was sad she no longer could paint because of tremors in her hand, but pleased she could still enjoy reading.  She used a walker to get around, but needed more assistance around the home, even living with her daughter.  

Martha liked the idea of smaller sized residential homes, easier for her to get around, and we toured a couple.  We discussed her likes and dislikes and had hoped to visit a couple other homes, then COVID hit.  Last month, after several falls, Martha ended up in the hospital. She knew she had to move out of her current living situation.  I contacted We Care Homes of Colorado, as I had recently toured one of their homes, St. Francis Assisted Living II.  
They were amazing!  

Dahlia and Kathryn went to the hospital to assess Martha.  I spoke with Martha and she loved Dahlia and Kathryn!  She was ready to give up her current living situation and work on getting healthier and stronger.  Martha moved to rehab and behind the scenes, We Care Homes was in action.  When Martha was discharged from rehab, they arranged transportation to
take her to her new home.  

Kathryn personally went to Martha’s apartment and gathered belongings for Martha to begin her healthier life. Martha is feeling stronger, healthier and happy she finally made the move. She said she was glad she had toured some residential homes so she knew what to expect in a new home.  Martha also said she knew she should have moved sooner, but it was such a difficult decision and her body decided for her.  

Many thanks to Dahlia, Kathryn, Josi, and everyone with We Care Homes of Colorado who helped make a difficult move a smooth transition for Martha!  
You ladies are the best!



Julie Donelan
Transition Coordinator

720-202-8464
 julie@maintain-me.com

AlzU Prevention Course with Seth Rogan

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Hilarity for Charity has partnered with AlzU to promote their Alzheimer's Prevention course with Seth Rogan!

Alzheimer's University focus's on Brain Health habits that can help to prevent against the development of Alzheimer's later in life.

Why Is It Important To Build An Alzheimer’s Resistant Brain?

There is new scientific evidence to support that living a brain-healthy lifestyle can help reduce the risk of developing Alzheimer’s disease and related Dementias. For an epidemic that has no cure and no way to slow the progression of the disease, this is huge news! And, because Alzheimer’s actually begins in the brain up to 20-30 years before the onset of symptoms, we are excited to teach young people how to care for their brains and get them thinking about living a brain healthy life.

To Learn more, Take the Alzheimer’s Prevention courses, or Donate please visit:

https://wearehfc.org/brainhealth/
 

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